My therapist is an expert in dementia. Based on what I told him, he is certain my wife is in the beginning stages of it, if not further along. He advised me to take to the doctors. I am a police officer and have placed many dangerous people in my car. I have no idea how I would get her in the car to go to the doctors. She refuses to see the doctor, take her pills, or bathe. I am in desperate need of assistance. I am not mentally equipped to take care of her.