My mother is in a dementia unit in Santa Fe, NM. Her husband is now in the Assisted Living section of the same Home. I have been told by the staff there that he is developing Alzheimer's as well. We have had issues with him about the financial aspect of her care - He has control (not a problem). I have Medical Power of Attorney for her. I would like to come to some agreement with him on her remaining time and care (Hospice is now being provided for her). Can I get guardianship so that i may make decisions that will need to be made in case she passes. I would like to pay for any costs associate with funeral, etc. and be able to bring her home. I live in Connecticut.