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My father was on the hospital for four days and when they discharged him the pcp nurse is now saying we declined skiff and hospice. Yes, I declined skilled nursing facility and rehab facility, but did not decline hospice. The latter which I do not recall being offered. I feel like I am going insane trying to figure out what I am being told as well as everyone is passing the ball around as to who I am supposed to talk to while my poor father is in fricking Misery and I'm feeling like I'm on the edge of a nervous breakdown if not currently in it. Six days later I am just now finding out that yes he has metastatic bones due to prostrate cancer.
Meanwhile over the weekend since the norco was doing Nothing for his pain I got him on the phone and set him up with a medical marijuana card. And that at least is managing his pain and helping him to sleep. A blessed Miracle!!!! As I think I would have lit my hair on fire if I had to go through all of these endless phone calls and having him in excruciating Pain. I've never been a fan or user of the stuff, but what it has done for my dad has made me an overnight believer.

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Very happy no mrsa! And yes, Garlic is amazing! It will sting like crazy for a few moments. With wounds I apply the raw crushed paste starting from the outer area surrounding and then a quick smear onto the actual area of concern, letting it sit for a few then wiping the bits off. There are probably ways of incorporating it into coconut oil or some like substance. I've been too impatient in the past when it comes to my own health and tend to jump into the quickest route. Hopefully it isn't something you'll need, just nice to know there are options available that don't require jumping through a million hoops.
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I did not know that abt garlic. Used for mrsa? Huh ... I'll try it (I don't have the dreaded mrsa), but will apply it to various wounds that I may acquire.
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I think I have about nine pads of paper sprinkled around the house and two outdoors with notes on everything from serious to mundane!
Dr. Google is one crazy guy! Never know what kind of box contents will come flooding out with it. ;)
My favorite antibiotic is raw garlic. Everyone looks at me as if I am crazy, but it's my go to when it's 3am and I feel anything awry. Hurts like hell at times, but works for me. There was a study done reported in bbc about usual salves versus a garlic salve for the very hideous mrsa. The garlic won hands down.
Hoping you are feeling better and life is giving you happy times. Big hugs!
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AND another thing: In my first post abt lupron, third para, second sentence, first/third words: SOME -- SOME men -- MAY ...

Not ALL, not even MANY -- a few MIGHT ... keep that in mind, whatever you decide to do.

Now I'm done and going to bed. Hugs.
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I forgot to say that I'd go for the $150 consult if you can afford it. Or at least get a second opinion as soon as. Then you'll know you've at least done everything you know to do for your dad, as apparently he did for you.

One step at a time, kiddo. And are you keeping a list? That always helps.
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As I said, don't be too frightened by the side effects. They usually, or at least often, don't happen. And at least you'll know what course of action to take if they do (call the doctor, go to ER).

A few weeks ago I had a terrifying side effect from an antibiotic. It was called sulfatrim, I think, and it not only gave me the usual ones (nausea, stomach burn), but it gave me INCREDIBLE anxiety and depression. I called Telehealth Canada and spoke to a nurse, which was useless; I called the ER that I'd gone to -- equally useless. Then I turned to good old Dr Google and guess what turned up: anxiety/depression in 5% to 7% of ppl who took it. It took me 10 days to get over and I'd only taken two! Never before and I'll tell you, never again.

I only say this so that you can be on the lookout. No anti-b has affected me that way before, and never again if I have anything to say abt it!

Here's another thing that I found from a Harvard-based web site:

"Hormone therapy is recommended as a palliative treatment, to relieve symptoms such as bone pain. And while hormone therapy is not a cure, in that it can’t eliminate prostate cancer completely, it often extends life for many years. By reducing testosterone levels, hormone therapy can shrink a prostate tumor and its metastases and slow further progression of the cancer for so long that sometimes a man with this disease dies of something other than prostate cancer."

Hugs again.
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Thank you Jingle for the lupron info. It sounds terrifying and something I'll have to ask the urologist to go over in clear non" medicalese" we are also looking at the cbd stuff. Fair to say the amount one can plow through is astounding. Many people have had success and remission, but for organ type cancers. Or would that be soft tissue?

The consult from unitedpatientsgroup is 150.00 and who knows what they would say. In low times I imagine them saying, "well I don't think it would have the impact on his bones, but it'll make him feel better. Thanks for asking." And in better times it's an array of "yes, it'll be simple and we have lots of success stories from real people you can talk to directly and see their progress from being given two weeks to now three years later cancer free and living a normal life." And then the anxiety about how much it will cost. A complete unknown. First thing is to go back and prioritize. A daily weekly exercise.
Right now focusing on the positive. He is free of pain, lucid, and will always be the best Dad ever.
To the times during all of this madcap experience when I look at him and feel mass love and nothing else. Those make it worthwhile. Treasure them.
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Sigh. Now I can't get the image of two vultures manipulating and peering into an endoscope out of my head. Maybe one of them can put on reading glasses and go Google about the grapefruit juice and the meds list when they are done. (Sometimes I sure feel like a vulture hunched over my computer tracking down rare genes and weird side effects.) But, bless you and thanks for the reminder not to get too casual about our investigations that seem totally routine to us, and bedside manner and all, plus remembering to translate acronyms and medical slang back into the vernacular. DO be careful not to just nod or say uh-huh a lot because we always assume that means you got it - "English please?" and "Uh, whats a skiff?" should always be acceptable.
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Monkeygirl: I just googled luprene and came up with lupron injection anti-testosterone -- I think that's what you mean. Anyway, here are the possible side effects, just so you know:

"Lupron Depot Side Effects
What to expect during the first few weeks

During the first few weeks of Lupron Depot therapy, testosterone levels will increase before they fall. Some men may experience temporary new or worsening symptoms of prostate cancer, including urinary symptoms and bone pain. If your cancer has spread to the spine or urinary tract, urinary blockage or pressure in the spine may occur and can sometimes lead to paralysis, which may be life threatening. You may require close medical attention during the first few weeks of Lupron Depot therapy. Notify your doctor if you develop new or worsened symptoms after beginning treatment."

I'm not trying to frighten you and they probably won't occur -- just FYI.

MM sounds good!

Hugs to you, Monkeygirl.
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Grapefruit interacts negatively with some medicines. Have you checked it out? If not, I would think it would be mandatory.
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