I am a full time live in caregiver for both of my parents. It started with my dad recuperating from major surgery and then my mom started with vascular dementia from a stroke and diabetes as well as gastroperesis. I do not work outside the home and I know I need to get paid for the work I do. How do I get past feeling guilty for asking for money for taking care of them? I am depressed and overwhelmed and starting to have bouts of resentment toward my brother who does not help at all and even toward my parents.