Hi, My mom has been my dads caregiver for the past 10 years. He is 92 with limited mobility and requires complete care. The service that offers them some care has brought concerns about my mom. She is becoming forgetful and unable to care for my Dad. I have found in home care from 9-7 each day. I am stressed and overwhelmed. Each time I go I see more help she needs. I am not sleeping, worrying about their finances and now after 3 days of care she want to make changes.
How do I deal with the stress. Does it get easier, all I am doing is worrying and making a longer to do list each day, of course things are getting done but the more I cross off the longer the list gets. I am overwhelmed and stressed :(