I recently had to quit my job of 13 yrs to stay home with my mother-in-law. I love her and I am doing this out of love for my husband also. We are in our late 40's and still have kids at home. My problem is she was diagnosed with dementia and is staying with us until we can move into her home. She tells my husband that I am trying to control her because I have to make her take her meds. She has started making up things to tell my husband about me, like I'm selling her meds to my children, all she takes is blood pressure pills. I never get a break from her. Help please!