She lives in her own home. Broher lives with her, bu won't help much. Makes food for himself but not mom. She cant eat what he makes for himself. She could sometimes have a small amount but won't. He won't rince dishes and put in dishwasher. Mom won't leave dishes in sink. Won't use paper plates. Can't talk to eighter of them. Mom is rigid and co-dependent wih brother.
Mom pulled muscles in arms and shoulders. Woman pulling on her at mamagram place. Had to hold her up. And mom And has arthritus in one arm. She uses walker. And she pulled a muscle putting dishes up on shelf. She wento doctor. He prescribed cream tha made her dizzy. And she fell and hur her arm again. Perscribed tylinol cause asperine she was faking made her somach feel bad. I doesn't work. She cant take perscription pain meds because of her other pills. I got her a small moist heat pad. She asked me to buy bigger one. I did. She refuses to have someone come make her meals and do dishes. I live an hour and a half away. She doesn't have dementia. Her mind is fine. She wont take meals on wheels. Every time I bring it up she has another reason to say no. She has to eat low salt and is obsessive about it is one reason. She has kidney disease.