I’ve been with my boyfriend around 2 years and he’s got a disabled mother with a number of health issues, lack of mobility diabetes etc. She just stays in her bed 24/7 and has carers in twice a day.
I've never really been around anyone with mobility issues and being disabled.
She just does my head in, she’s very controlling of my boyfriend. For example, when we’re out, calling him a lot of the time and texting him. I understand he has to help look after her. But it’s like he has no life. She just always causes problems between us, arguments over things. Like I’ve got it in my head he’ll never be able to move out and we won’t be able to live together cause she will always be his number one priority.
I have spoken to him about it but he just brushes it off and says I’m being stupid but nothing much changes.
I'm getting to the stage where I’ve had enough but I do love him. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. Thanks