Have a 40 hour per week caregiver. Very good with them.
Dad-high fall risk. Diabetes untended. Bad heart. Maybe mild Alzheimer's? Gets angry when we talk about hiring another caregiver.
Mom-has pulmonary hypertension-terminal (probably 1 year or less). She can't walk and breathe at the same time. Took care of dad until the last few years. She wants help but doesn't want to live with the consequences of going against dad.
I live in Florida and they live in Oklahoma. I've been here 8 times in the last year, 3 weeks this time. I have a family and business at home.