Mom has gotten worse and worse. She does not wash anymore, but insists she does! She has become dependent upon depends, but also refuses to accept the fact. I suggested we get someone to help her. She went ballistic ( she can be very verbally abusive). I have been checking into assisted living facilities in the area, and have a couple of appointments. The problem is how do I get Mom to co-operate? Right now she is giving me the silent treatment. After trying to talk to her this morning, she has stopped talking--period! I'm at wits end trying to deal with her. HELP!