I’ve taken care of his parents who have both passed. I’ve welcomed and took him into my own home. 3yrs later. (Current) he’s been getting verbally nasty with my children. Last week he grabbed my little 5yr old girl by the arm and yelled in her ear because “her voice is too loud”. I called the police made a report. I rent a room to him. I'm also his in-home supportive service IHAA provider. I'm his representative. A day ago he swung a cane at my family member, he started yelling. I was called downstairs to help my family as soon as I come down client calls me a few nasty words and reaches for my neck and yes chokes me. I did my best to defend myself all while my brother was trying to get him off me . My kids are traumatized from last week especially from a day ago. I feel stuck. I called police made a report The ambulance took him to hospital because he’s disabled and dont think jail is the right place for him because of a stroke. From 20+ years ago? Idk if he’d be checked in for 5150. I call the hospital to speak with him because he hasn’t anyone else. I don’t know how to go about any of this situation.
I’ve read countless articles and am having a hard time to find help in my defense as everything is related to and for elder getting abuse. The thing is I and my family are being abused. Not the other way. Help! Open to all suggestions