My grandmother is 92 and in a nursing home. She has no living children and I am the only grandchild willing to be active in her care.
She has become increasingly demanding of me. She has the nursing home staff call me constantly, demanding that I come oversee her care (She has bronchitis. Her vitals are good. She’s just uncomfortable. )
I don’t know what to say to her. I feel that she is manipulating me but don’t want to be dismissive of her.
I work full time and am very involved with me kids and grandkids.
Please give experiences and advice if you can. Thank you in advance.