My Mom has been very lonely since Dad died two years ago. She has been on the waiting list for assisted living for over a year now (only one place in our small town), but no openings. We offer her space in our small home, but she says she does not want to be a bother. She want's to die sooner and not opt for the pace maker . She has Bradycardia. She also has early stages of dementia. She recently started an antidepressant (the Dr. was quite alarmed at her attitude). Do I work on convincing her to get the pacemaker, or do I let it go?