Husband is a social person, but he wants me in his line of sight constantly. He has ALZ and it is getting worse. We just moved to be closer to our Son and our 5 Grand-daughters so he hasn't met or remember he's met anyone he could talk with. I can not even get to the bathroom with out him hunting me down. That little room has become my sanctuary sometimes. There is no sense in talking with him about going to a day care so should I just ride over to a daycare and take him in to look around? I wish they would call these places Senior Care as it might make my husband feel less like a child who needs to be dropped off. He has recently been asking me to promise not to put him in a Nursing Home. I can only reply that I will take care of him the best that I can. The little voices in my head then carry on with the REST of the story. They say that I would take care of him the best I can and if that means putting him in a NH to give him the care that I can not, so be it. I just need some time to myself if only for a couple of mornings a week. I just don't know how to accomplish this and maybe afraid of the confrontation that may take place upon my trying. I have bad sciatica that I am coping with and everything is getting more and more difficult to deal with, especially the stress. I hate the thought of threatening him with "it's either daycare or a nursing home, your choice". I will if I knew it would get the job done. Any suggestions?