It became apparent that she needed 24-7 care in the last 6 weeks. She would not move into our home. We had 2 daytime caregivers, but weekend and night time care was difficult to find. Now that we have moved her she is angry and very disoriented about where she is and doesn't know what decade she is living in. They tell me she will calm down. She has been there for a week and still not showered, even with myself or daughter, or one of her former caregivers, with whom she is comfortable. I feel so sorry for her and a bit guilty too. What to do?