A few years ago my mom was scammed by romance scammers for about $400k. Her entire savings for retirement is gone. My sister was caring for her until recently when she unexpectedly passed away in April. Now mom wants to move from Alabama to Maine to be closer to my family and her grandkids. She is selling her house to make the move but that won’t be enough to sustain her for many more years as it’s possible she has early onset dementia or frontal lobe dementia. She is still giving money away to guys (her social security checks, money gifted to her from when my sister passed away, etc.) and I need to control her money now. She has agreed and I am the DPOA but she can still revoke that if she gets upset. Is there a way legally she can give me control of her finances that won’t allow her to change her mind later? A 5 year look back would be detrimental to her right now and we can’t support her when her money runs out. Is a court my only option to try? Thank you for taking the time to read this. I know it’s long but it’s only the tip of the iceberg. Have a great day.