I believe mom is incompetent, but she puts up a good front. She is very believable but lacks executive functions and has her own version of reality. She distrusts us since we told her that she has dementia. Since she can't make up her own mind and forgets that she has trusted people taking care of her, she seeks the advice of strange attorneys. Her own long-time estate planning attorney will testify that mom is incompetent. I don't want to get guardianship because that will emotionally destroy her. How can I stop the attorneys that stroll through the nursing homes looking for their next ... client? Can I get a restraining order against the attorneys?