I am about at the end of my rope. My father passed away on June 20. I haven't been able to sleep or grieve for my dad because I am the sole caretaker to my mother with Alzheimer's disease. I live with her...dad left me POA. My so-called siblings took her not even six hours after dad died. They cleaned out her savings accounts shut down her debit and credit cards . I am the one that cooks, cleans takes mom to her appointments, clean up her potty accidents and the siblings come behind and rob her blind. BUT she wants them. Nothing I do is good enough. I have health issues and am not strong. Even though dad arranged for POA to protect her...the bank wouldn't even look at the paperwork. I went in and tried to warn the bank teller that they had my mom and we're bringing her down to clean out every bit of her money. They told me that my mom was a joint account holder and there was nothing they could do to stop it. Even though I have a general POA. Today is July 4. I have a horrible migraine... I have been dealing with sibling nastiness and cops all day. So much for the holiday plans I had been planning. My siblings are viscious liars....and have turned me into adult protective services, child protective services, social security, food stamp and Medicaid fraud programs. I had to drug test the day Dad lay dying on hospice in my living room... They told CPS and police I had a METH LAB IN MY HOME!!! I Passed.... as I haven't done a drug in my life. I wouldn't even know what meth looks like. I have devoted the last 15 years of my life, lost love relationships,etc. And this is the thanks I get. My mother is the type of person that gets what she wants when she wants it. And when she thinks something g better is on the horizon, she runs for it no matter who she hurts. I have had more stress and trauma than I can handle lately. I always hold the bag. I'm the doormat.. All of the fighting is over the will. It's about money. I am to I herit the home my parents built with their own two hands. The siblings are in financial crisis and need more money ASAP. They are planning on kidnapping her again. They have tried this before...but dad was still alive then. He called the cops to bring her back. BUT she refused to come home. She told them she wanted to visit there. This stress caused the stroke that weakened dad. Now he's gone. And I don't know how to protect my mom. She thinks the evil kids she created actually care about her. It's heartbreaking. I need advice....and fast.