My mom is married and living with her husband, who is sick with cancer. As her health has declined, she needs more attention, he is not capable of giving it to her. My sister called me over to their house because the smell was horrifying, we spent hours cleaning, and came back two days later to the same smell. He is incapable of caring for my mother who has a very hard time getting around. Also she is bleeding from down there and will not let anyone look at it or clean it. She is unable to do so herself. Her husband wants her to go to the hospital, says she can't stay there. He cannot take it anymore. She does not want to go to the hospital, wants to die at home. We are not sure that she is dying, as she won't go to hospital. Five years ago, she signed medical POA to me while she was hospitalized. To my knowledge, there is no other one. Can I go there and take my mom to my house for care? Which would include a trip to urgent care to investigate the bleeding, whether she liked it or not. I have the room and ability to care for her much easier than her husband but he hates me. Hates the thought of me doing something he cannot. We have never gotten along. When I brought up the subject he got very angry. I suspect they are both abusing pain meds as well. I have no idea what I can legally do. What I want is to respect her wishes.