I have a friend, female, age 68 who was recently diagnosed with a mass on her lung and a large mass on one of her kidneys. She refuses to go to her oncologist. She has had a great weight loss as she cannot eat. The doctors in the hospital where she was for 4 days in December gave her a med. to take before each meal. When she was taking this in the hospital she was able to eat, when she went home she stopped taking the meds. so she can't eat. It is like she is committing slow suicide. Her sister, some friends and myself have tried to reason with her, but she will not listen & she knows better than the doctors. I cannot sit by and watch her die. Obviously there are some mental health issues and no one can get through to her. I am being physically affected by all of this. PLEASE HELP!