Me, my 10 yr old son and my parents lease an apartment. They are not married. They are in their 80’s. Mom has congestive heart failure and so me and my siblings care for her. My dad is physically able to work, but instead, he is trying to work the system.
He got fired 3 years ago from his job and got unemployment, which was later revoked. He was not serious about getting a job, while he was filling unemployment. He keeps trying to appeal his case and refuses to look for another job. He gets social security monthly. He also has gambling and spendthrift issues.
He used my mom for years. Now that I care for her, he’s upset that I won’t let him have her money or even my money. He pays only $200 out of $1500 worth of monthly housing expenses! As soon as he pays me, he is asking to borrow it back, He had some debts, which is none of my concern.
I refuse to be used like he used my mom. I asked him to get a job or move out. He won’t leave. Instead he calls ADS on me and claims that I am abusing him. I have had words with him and never laid hands on him. He is careless and caused damage to my car and got a red light ticket, which he tried to dodge paying for. He seems to think that he’s just gonna retire and I will the foot the bill.
I got my first degree in 2016, so I have the impending doom of loan repayments looming over my head.
My siblings never like my dad and he is not their biological parent. My dad is and has been an alcholic for decades. He says that he no longer drinks, even though he had a relapse 3 yrs ago.
How do I get him out of my apartment?