I had to move in with my mother to take care of her. My brother had been staying with her, but had went to jail. She is 77 and has dementia. She gave me Durable power of attorney and I am her payee. My brother is now out of jail and living back in my mom's house. He is insane and on drugs. He won't clean his room. You can smell it down the hall. He let his drug friends move in. I had to evict a lady that was here. She had two unauthorized people here. They have tore up her house. Kicked holes in the wall and even put a whole in the floor. He doesn't want me here. He has convinced my mom that I tricked her into power of attorney, which is not true. My mom thinks she can take care of herself but forgets to pay her bills. She forgets to bath and eat. My brother won't work. He does side jobs and then stays gone for days and comes back drunk or high. My mom thinks she has to take care of him. I've called the police on him twice since I've been here. They refuse to make him leave. I asked for a restraining order but the judge won't give me one. He has hit me in my face while I was driving about 8 years ago. He has thrown hammers at me. He hit me in the head with a screwdriver. Years ago he was in prison for shooting a guy in the head. He steals my mom's money and he got her car impounded. Now she doesn't have a car. She doesn't drive but she owes them $2000. My mom blames me ever time my brother freaks out. She says what did you do to him. My mom treats him like a child. My mom is scared of him but thinks she needs to take of him. She can't even take of herself so now I feel like I am taking care of two children. I want to leave but I can't leave her here with him. I was told by two people on two different occasions they had to pull him off of her when he was freaking out. Because she won't admit he is like this to the police they won't do anything. I am trying to get guardianship but am having trouble with getting her doctor to fill out the form. He won't give it back to me. I think he is afraid of being sued. As I am writing this it is 3 in the morning because I can't sleep. He has his TV on all night long ever night. Then he will sleep most of the day. He will get up to eat then go back to bed. This is a living nightmare.