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Diagnosed with C Diff and Norovirus, 7 days in the hospital, apartment is filthy with tenants of her illness and overall hoarding conditions in her home.

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You will now demand to see APS and Social Workers for assessment of living conditions and safety of discharge.

I would be very careful not to take on temporary guardianship or POA now for someone who is likely unable to care for herself, and who will almost certainly not cooperate with you. The task of taking on her care will overwhelm you completely. Let social workers know and APS know that you have had no luck intervening with your mom and don't intend to take responsibility for her, that you believe she needs intervention and guardianship of the state, safe placement, and disposal of her assets for her care, and that is all something you cannot handle.

If she is discharged back despite all of that, call the ambulance, have her readmitted. C Diff can KILL, and in these conditions not only is her life at risk, but so is any tenants.
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I would take pictures of the inside of her apartment and show them to the hospital discharge planner and social worker and tell them she is an "unsafe discharge" and that she is not cooperative with care and therapy for her hoarding and that you are NOT her caregiver. Do not take her back home, refuse to sign her out or participate in it, just keep repeating she is an "unsafe discharge" and don't believe any promise they make to help her once she gets home: they won't. Talk to the social worker about discharging her directly into a facility.

Then again, if she somehow is able to sign herself out and get herself back home then you must step away and report her to APS.
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Ok, this post you have explained more.
Again you need to talk to the discharge planner and or a Social Worker and explain the situation.
She may need a psych evaluation.
Hoarding is not just collecting stuff it is a psychological problem. It can not be "cured" by cleaning her home.
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