I live with my 96 year old mom and i have 2 sisters that help me take care of her when i work. My brother only comes once a month. lately they are telling me that i should be saving all of my moms ssi check so they wont have to help with funeral expenses. I tell them that she has hospital and medical bills to pay so i wouldnt be able to do that. they refuse to help me financially in time of need. i feel very stressed out and dont know what to do.