I retired in the USA and traveled to Santiago Chile to be with my 87 years old mother. I was never disrespectful to my mother now at 60 I find myself arguing, yelling and saying not pleasant comments to her. No matter what I do she does not like it; painting the walls, fixing the parquet floor and celebrating her bday. I don't like the food, the perfume (Armani) the flowers. Accordingly to her I threw away her valuable things (old plastic bags). She was like that before but now it is a chronic situation. She tells me hurtful things, she wants me out of the house. One of her comments was I am trying to figured out how I can leave you with out inheritance. She hides things from me like the tea I brought. Physically has pushed me out of the house. My mother is very independent, she administrates her rentals and does all her accounts. I thought about buying my own home so I can still be here. She refused to sign some papers in order for me applied for a subsidize program. It has been depressing for me. I find myself hating her she has never been a nurturing mother now is worse.