I have tried several times talking with my 90 year old Aunt (who moved in with my Mom and myself) to stop paying her credit card debts and use her SS money to start pre-paying her funeral.
My Aunt's response is she "needs" to do the right thing and pay her cards off. She owes about $9,000 in debt. I then asked her if she talked to an attorney and he told her what I told her would that make a difference and she said no. Very stubborn lady.
Is there anything else I could say to her to get through to her? I love my Aunt dearly and I'm scared that by the time she does pay her debt that she will pass away and won't be buried next to my Uncle which I know means so much to her. I can't afford to pay for her funeral when her time comes.