I have been given a list of contracted homes that will take a patient with my spouse's needs for care. He has a tracheotomy and there are no local based places that will take a patient with a tracheotomy. I have been given a list of places that are over an hour away and I am not able to make that travel every day or have any place to stay closer to my spouse to ensure he is being given the best treatment and not being mistreated. I would bring him home if I had just one person to be here with me to help with his care. Another problem is a decent bed. I have an older house and I don't know what they have to have n the way of current and plugs for the bed he would need. I am basically told that I have either to "step" him down from the acute care he is getting or make him comfortable and let him die. My mind is in a panic and this day I have to make calls to people to see what I can arrange. I have no family willing to help except to be critical of my situation. What can I do?