So mom's hospice nurse can't seem to set or keep to a real schedule with respect to in-home visits. In the beginning (Feb 2020), we set a schedule for Tuesday mornings. That worked for about 3 wks then covid hit and we switched to virtual visits. Since July, in-home visits have resumed.
Here's the issue/irritation: when we were doing virtual visits she had a bad habit of reaching out 10 min before wanting to do a visit. Because it was virtual I would just drop what I was doing for the sake of getting it done. Now that we are doing in-person visits again, she has a bad habit of calling and wanting to drop by in 30 min or less. WTH?
I'm a very organized person and like to plan my week/days in advance as much as possible. So is it wrong for me to demand/expect a schedule with respect to visits? I'm the sole caregiver for my mom and I feel like she's not respecting me or my limited time.
Any recommendations on how to approach this with her?