Medicaid tells the NH to send her home, and they do. They've done it 3 times so far. She's in a power chair and needs to be lifted. That makes my BP shoot up. She's got breathing problems and dementia. She's out of her mind and they're sending her home again since her blood gases are OK. My doctor says I medically can't stand the strain and he wants me to stop. I have had a couple of strokes. Is there a way out before I'm in the hospital, too?