SIL is morbidly obese, bed bound, unable to rehabilitate due to non-compliance. She lives with our daughter and her family. Our daughter works full time as home health RN and has three active children and husband. SIL deliberately buys stuff online with no regard to the bills she should be paying. Overdraws her bank account every month. Owes seven years back property taxes and doctors bills but still spends her social security check without paying the bills. We are paying for her sitter and home health care out of our pocket because no health care companies take her Medicare Advantage. We are running out of money. And we are running out of patience. She expects us to make all doctor appointments, call insurance and social security. When we tell her to do it herself she makes up excuses.
Can we just put her in a nursing home?