I am currently caregiver to my grandfather. We live together along with my two kids and my husband (who is currently gone for work). Recently my grandfather has become very weak, 2 falls that took me over an hour each to get him up, he is incontinent but will not let me help him clean up, he refuses to admit that he is unable to care for himself, has dementia, and fights me every step of the way. He physically cannot get around very well unless he has a walker and takes brakes every 10-20 feet. As of saturday, I took him to the ER where he ended up checking himself out Against Medical Advice. I just don't know when, how, or where to get help as he makes a good income, but pays a lot in housing costs. I also don't know if it is time to move him to a 24 hour residential facility, or if we can afford home care. I am so lost, frustrated, and feel like I am drowning.