I'm not talking end of life dementia. I'm talking about someone who is living independently. They are not ready to be locked up, but if they continue with their abusive temper tantrums, I am afraid they are going to be prematurely locked up so that they are not a menace to society. I'm talking about someone who still drives, dresses and can pretend to be normal. They ask the same question 30 times, but make inappropriate comments in public, and if angered, can obsess to the point of a temper tantrum. What do you do with these people? This person is on memory medication but refuses to allow a care giver to come into their house.