What do I do? My father has just me and my daughter who has autism and mental health difficulties. I'm a care worker and he is so demanding he emotionally blackmails me by staying in bed. He has had double pneumonia 5 times in 18 months through bad discharge.. however he has had a really great recovery last time and when I asked him to mobilize he give us abuse. He phones and lies about the care home to make me go there he has no dementia and is a real attention seeker he does and says awful things. My life the past 18 months has fell apart I'm so depressed I feel like running away but have no money because of the time I've had away from work ...I've lost my relationship and can't even take a break on holiday as he makes himself I'll and I have to come back ...what do I do please help I've cancelled Christmas as he's gone back in and I'm sick of arguing with Drs at not a great hospital. We live in England.