We are having a family meeting with adult protective services and Dad today. Only 1 of 6 sibs can join me. I dont want to petition for Guardianship because I fear it would cause very bad hurt among everyone, but not sure. APS wont remove mom unless dire situation. Meeting is to discuss concerns and can't go in with goal of moving them per worker. I've been there 21 times in 2019, 1 hour away, work full time plus OT, husband is recovering from back surgery. I'm requesting each sib take a month this year to take calls, visit call Dad. My health has suffered, can't continue. Plan to voice all today. help!