My mom is getting worse and very argumentative, we've stopped her from cooking and driving and doctors have said either get 24/7 care to live in home or put her in facility but her husband refuses. We've offered to move them here to have family close to help, but they refuse. I don't know what to do or where to turn. I'm afraid the stress will kill him or someone is going to get hurt or worse. What's a daughter to do from far away?