My grandma has mood swings with her severe dementia. When she gets angry she will literally hold her arms with her hands so tightly she makes bruises and sore muscles. Sometimes she'll flail her arms around hitting her walker or the table she uses to hold her food and drink or even the lamp behind her chair (but since I moved the location it's a little less often for that unless she's physically seeking it out for a weapon). She hits her arms doing this a lot and there is bruising. I try to put ice on it which she hates so it's limited. I have Vitamin E lotion I use on her to help the bruise fade. She's on tylenol for other things which I'm sure helps with the pain but I still hate to see the bruising on her. Is there anything that can be help to help with the bruises? Is there anything I'm missing?