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adult child caregiver of mother? who is mean and cuses her daughter who is trying to clean and help her but daughter gets cussed out and mother will poop in her diaper and play in it and thro it all over the room etc. how and where can I get help? ,Mother is bed ridden and cant walk or sit along. Daughter does everthing for her.Mother cusses daughter out all the ttime and tells her she is no good. mother is 90 and a hatefull old woman has been all my lifeshe has dementure and lots more

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I'm assuming daughter is not guardian - sounds like the way to go is to talk to Adult Protective Services and ask them to help petition for state to take over as guardian. This is way past the ability of a family member to care for elder.
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How long has the daughter been coping with this? Do you think you can persuade her it's time to look for help?
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And a onesie with a zipe tie on the back so she can no longer reach the poop and spread her joy. omg.
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Mother needs medicating ASAP
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