I am the daughter with no help with my father who suffers with dementia. He had a stroke and is unable to care for himself now and resides for now in a nursing home. I do not know who to turn too. He wants to return home but he would need caregivers and probably a lift. He has no extra income except his SSI. He used his funds from reverse mortgage years ago. I was told he could restructure and get more from house now. I do not like the nursing home for him but I'm so confused what to do? Money is so tight..I have been floating his home with anticipation I can bring him home, but now do not think it's a good idea. Have a big bill from nursing home, even though waiting for his approval from Medicaid. Even so, he will still owe quite a bit of money. He owes money everywhere with his medical care, still the hospital, the people that have had to transport him to specialist, and just the bills on his home. His property value has increased but not sure what this could mean to help him financially. Has anyone else been in this situation and how did you handle? Who is helpful to help me sort this out? I am stressed, confused and feeling ever so frustrated.