my 82 yar old husband in late 5 stage Alzheimer's will not take a shower for me, he says he's never had to be told when to shower he knows when and gets really mad if I say anything. he always thinks he just took one. I have to grab his clothes & hide them so he won't put them back on but he sleeps in his t shirt & underwear so I cannot get them. Also he is in such a rush when he wakes up to get downstairs to where I am having my quiet time, he does not wash up, brush teeth ( all his own) nor shave. I need help, I have tried everything I have read.