She lives alone. She doesn't take care of herself. Takes oxycontin regularly along with a myriad list of other medications. Also drinks alcohol every day. Doesn't eat right. Won't admit there is any problem. My brother lives nearby but she won't take help. Her Dr. won't speak to either of us because of the law and we are not listed on her HIPPA form. What do I do?? She is going to kill herself.
Other than refusing help, does she have a decent relationship with you and your brother?