My Mom told me she is losing her memory, that she forgets important things, and in the past 2-3 weeks I have come home to see her still in her PJ's. How can I help her? My Dad is aware and he told me a week ago that my Mom is forgetting thinks and wants me to pick up the slack per say due to he is just use to be tended too vs. my responds to him, on that if my Mom can't do it he needs to step up. He just doesn't want to and thinks everything should be done for him. I need some help on how to stay home to take care of both of them before things get worse. Please let me know what steps to take.