My Mom has been taking care of my Dad. He has many health challenges, but won't go seek medical attention. He is paranoid of anyone that comes into the house. He has a hernia, can't walk on his own without help, can't straighten out his hands so a wheel chair doesn't work. He also can't eat without my Mom's assistance. We think he's had a mild stroke as well.
My Mom is on burnout and I don't know how to help her. She wants to travel and still enjoy life. But feels she can't and is bound to the house and my Dad.
She wants him to go to the doctor so she can get a handicap tag and a urinal bag for him. She is up every 2 hours taking him to the bathroom.
She told me they recently fell together in the kitchen.
Can someone give me some guidance or someone that can help? I don't know what to do.