Anita is the Daughter of the Dementia Person Annie Mae. Anita and her Husband is the caregivers for Annie Mae. Eye sight is just about completely gone. She is now having problems with her daily/short term memory. They get highly upset and constantly correct Annie Mae when she gets anything out of order or says something incorrect. They make a scene. Its hard watching Annie Mae loose her Mind and it is so sad. I stay with Annie Mae at least one day a month to give them a break. Two other family members gives them one day a month breaks. They get 3 to 6 days a month away to do what they need to do or just get away. How can we help them to understand Annie Mae has no control over what is happening to her? I usually just let Annie Mae continue telling her stories over and over as if I have never heard them. and let her tell what ever she talks about in the way she remembers it at the time. I just don"t correct her. Seems to make her feel at eaz and happy to talk. When they stop her, force her to rethink what she has said and then correct her. She is so sad and hurt. I know it is hard and not something we want to see happen. But she can not help it. If she could, she would. Annie Mae is a geniue true Lady. I have never heard her say anything bad about anyone, always had a kind word to say to everyone, prayed for everyone and do what ever she could for anyone. Just one of the greatest people you could ever meet. Please give some ways we can help the family adjust easier. Anita and her husband are not easy people to talk to. In their eyes they dont do or say anything wrong. So, I really need some pointers here. Sincerely, Sham M.