He has pretty sever dementia but very few physical problems. He has been at the facility for 10 days. The first day that I did not go in to see him he complains of chest pain goes to hosp. , cardiac work up, no problem at all. This was not my first rodeo with the chest pain. I took him to the ER so many times with same result that I was beginning to feel like a fool. So it looks like he knows well how to get attention. Now for the hard part. I was so upset by this act that I did not go to the hospital, feel bad about. I am going to see him as soon as he gets back to ALF today. I want him to be as content as possible, they are sending him back to AL with ativan prn so maybe that will help. I guess you can tell I am trying to adjust too. Will anyone share their exp with me please?