My dad is in a memory care nursing home. He has Alzheimer's. He lives 2 hours away from me. His wife that he was married to for 30 plus years just recently passed away. She ran everything when she was alive. The memory care place now has me down as next of kin which is correct. They asked me to be Power of Attorney. I have no problem with that. I told them I had to wait for the will to be probated. She died July 22nd. They have called 3 times asking about who is going to pay for his care. I said you have to have patience for me to find out where everything is. Plus it is now up to me if I want to keep my dad 2 hours away or move him close to me. What do people think of this? Please I look forward to any info you have.