My husband continues to eat whatever he chooses. He is now smoking atleast a pack a day! Gets no exercise, and I am starting to see his decline again.
He honestly doesnt care about himself. We have 3 younger children in the home and he has not written a will or made any POA desisions.
I am so angry that he was given the chance to live twice (heart attack. He coded. And quad bypass) and has chosen not to do everything he can to be healthy. Knowing there is nothing more that can be done to his heart is causing me to stress and worry. I constantly have to remind myself that he has made his own decisions. How do others prepare themselves and or children for death not knowing when? If he drops, doesn't wake up, or all the "what if s" what do I do?? Besides call 911? I feel I need a plan for my children to protect them for possibly the worst? All 3 are under 13.