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When I was taking care of my dad he had dementia but as the months went by he progress he started talking to mom and she is passed on..i never ask him who he was talking to because I already knew. One particular night I was setting on the couch and my dad was sitting back in his room and where I was sitting I can see down the hall, I heard my dad get up and walk out of the room to the room across from his is where my mother stayed in after she got sick we took care of her in that room...all of sudden I seen a glow and the door shut, I froze I didn't know what to do a few minutes later my dad came out of the room and went back to his room, I set there for a moment to get my wits together (literally) finally I got up walk down the hall look into the room my mom stayed in and then went to my dads , I ask him what was he doing and he responded and said "I went and talk to your mom she called me" I ask him what did she say? he told me that she said it was time for him come home..i crumbled I wasn't scared but I worried I know my dad would've been going home soon because my mom ask him too and you know what? My dad very seldom said no to my mom....

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No no I took care of my dad for 6 yrs and my dad had NEVER acted in a strange way , I called him the 3 C'S, CALM COOL AND COLLECTED he NEVER gave me any problems the whole time I took care of him and I have been taking care of (special elderly) for over 20 yrs (ALZ) and they would fight you to the end especially women , to me men are the most calm but they are strong I have be thrown up against the wall in my day of taking care of the ALZ elderly ..the answer to your question BRANDYWINE. do you believe in angels , miraculous things happen.. I do and I believe that was a light for dad from my mother so yes the glow was my mom I seen it for my own eyes
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My dad has done things like this. Sometimes in the evenings he gets sundowners. All kinds of strange things can be said. Sometimes he will look at me and ask for his coat and tell me it's time to go home. When I tell him he is home and should go to his room and rest, he doesn't know where his room is. My house is not big and he can see his door from his chair. Hope this helps google sundowners and see if it sounds the same. Good luck and prayers
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What was the glow?
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