finance condition. My brother and I have been very good children. We have educated our children, they are all professionals and none of us have ever asked for any money from my parents. Mom is paranoid and negative about everyone and everything. It is as if she doesn't care about her family. She seems mentally fine, but I fear she has a personality disorder. Of course she won't see a doctor, doesn't trust them, so it is hard to deal with her now. I am fearful of what the future will bring. How do I get her help.