Parents are frail and a little demented. Last year I was diagnosed with stage IV breast cancer. We just moved our parents (85 and 91) to our town to look out for them (they're in a senior independent living situation, but they need a lot of support). Two weeks later, my brother's wife of 25 years left him out of the blue. Our mentally ill sister, who is in a wheelchair due to an osteonecrotic hip, was evicted this month, and convinced a friend to drop her off at my brother's house. He and his son are a mess, and can't handle the crazy. I am so panicky that I feel light headed and almost fell at work yesterday. We don't know how to keep our jobs and help everyone. Would appreciate any advice or sympathetic comments. We are in Oregon, if that is useful to your response.