My mother does nothing but have hateful and mean looks on her face most of the time, is this normal?? It really starting to get to me, I try to ignore it but cant, just wondering if this is normal or not
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Then one day, her eyes/face changed. You can see the HATRED in her eyes. She would walk slowly toward you, calmly, no anger or yelling or getting mad. Just quietly walking to you. But, you look in her eyes, and you just KNOW she's going to Hurt you. Darn! We RAN! And she CHASED. I don't have to tell you how terrified we were. If she changed while outside, we just ran around the car until she stops. The scary ones are when inside the house. We always locked all the locks when we're inside. So, she cannot walk out by herself. If her calmness turns to Hatred, you can SEE it in her face.
Once, my 2 younger sisters and I were "babysitting" mom....we were in our age of 20's. We saw the Hatred in her eyes, and she calmly walked to us with her hands fisted. We ran behind the 3-person sofa, and she FLIPPED it trying to reach us. We all screamed and ran into our bedroom (we share the room), locked it, leaned against it - screaming out loud. She had ran after us, and was pounding so hard against the door, it was shaking. We were terrified. Very bad memories.
You all, my mom was like yours in that she was quiet and Glared at us. I'm not saying that your mom will become violent like ours, but if you have kids, PLEASE be careful and watchful of your parent. We, girls, were in our 20's but we were able to READ mom's Expression. Please, get to know your parents' normal expression, Normal Glare. If you see the Hatred, BEWARE!
I've read somewhere here in this site, several times, that there are medications that can help your parent IF they become violent. Just be careful, okay? HUGS to you all!!!